I’m sitting on the plane on the way to New York just remembering all the fun I’ve had over the last few days at my second DomCon… So many great parties and events – but most of all I loved spending time with some amazing Dominant women I’m lucky enough to consider my friends and colleagues. It can get bit isolated sometimes being an independent Domina though I’m super lucky to have Mistress Jadis of course.

This year was my second visit so I was excited to reconnect with a lot of the amazing ladies I connected with last year as well as seeing people I’ve known from my other travels. I think some of the best times were having a relaxing chat away from the glamorous events with friends of mine like Irene Boss and Maya Sinstress…

I did get to play though of course at the Friday night play party at Sanctuary as well as at a couple of private intimate gatherings and in my own room

Then there was the shopping! So many vendors with enticing wares on display. I think only the sad fact of limited luggage space stopped me from going totally crazy. I certainly picked up some great items though including a nipple torture tower, arm binder, lovely hemp rope, spiked cock sheath, matched floggers and put in an order for some super glamorous new custom latex for me!

DomCon is a very well dressed event – with so many ProDommes from all over the world, each lady enjoys the chance to show off her unique style at all the different parties, classes and other gatherings. I’ve never seen so many huge bags as there were in the lobby  this morning as we all headed back to our hometowns. I would have worn at least seven different fetish outfits from adorable Hello Kitty corset for the launch party, classic dressage wear for the Pony Awards where I was asked to help judge, to a leather dress for the play party to rubber for the ball. Hopefully the photos will come through soon..

Originally published at Mistress Servalan on tour. You can comment here or there.

My bestie Mistress Wynter in New York is teaching a class tonight on Playing with No Toys – she was asking for opinions over on the Max Fisch message boards to see what other people’s experiences have been with play that doesn’t involve a vast arsenal of implements.

There were lots of opinions from various people – very interesting to see what sort of experiences have made an impression – from spanking to pinching to verbal to the lightest yet so very intense touch of a Lady’s fingers!

This is what I had to say “Oh – I love love love using my hands (feet/elbows/knees) to torment my subs…

I have very strong hands – nipple squeezing and twisting is often far more painful than using clamps – plus you get to see the delicious look of suffering in the slave’s face – and they get to see the wide eyed look of pleasure in mine

And feet as well – I love pinching with my toes as well as just wiping my feet on my plaything…

Same goes with ball squeezing – just increasing the pressure a tiny amount takes it from firm to agonising… apparently because of course I have no empathic understand of what that could possibly feel like with my ovaries so nice and safe inside my body!

Body punching, elbow strikes, repeated kicks to the ass or chest – so fun… Nothing better than doing bag work on a slave instead of a boring old bag or focus pads!

Then there’s just regular old manhandling – dragging people around – slapping and spitting…

Or for all the domestic subs traditional over-the-knee discipline… my hand spanking is *very* severe – I don’t need a paddle or cane to leave marks at times! Plus the embarrassment of being pulled along by the ear as I let the miscreant know in no uncertain terms what’s in store!

Not to mention the joys and delights of ballbusting – with feet, knees or even better punches…

Delicious! ”

Interestingly – just after I wrote that I had a fabulous session that involved a lot of hands-on play – specifically using my Martial Arts skills… I incorporated wrestling, “human bagwork” and some highly entertaining ballbusting. It wasn’t an implement free session – I did place a few lovely stripes on his bottom with one of my canes, and introduce him to erotic electro-play.

I took a few photos with the webcam in my laptop just after the session was over… the traditional Kung Fu uniform looks very different to my regular leather or latex attire!

do these little hands and feet look dangerous?

A nice reminder for me as I’m such a total gear-head that sometimes the best toys are the ones that I didn’t have to acquire.

Originally published at Mistress Servalan on tour. You can comment here or there.

Well it’s May already so just under three weeks till I leave for my trip to the US. I have availability to session until the 16th of May and will be back in the dungeon again on the 2nd of June… I’m certain to have a few new items to display when I return as having a chance to shop in all the fabulous fetish stores is one of the big bonuses of travelling!

Once again I’m honoured to be a Special Guest of Honour at DomConLA and am really excited to catch up with my friends who I haven’t seen since this time last year! I arrive in LA on the 17th and will have some availability to play on the 18th, 19th and 20th…

Monday the 21st I fly out to New York and will be staying with my best friend Mistress Wynter and playing at her fabulous playspace. I’m spending a week in New York and am already getting quite busy – I guess all the subs there missed me in the two years it’s been since I last visited! I leave New York on the 29th to head back to LA then I fly out late on the evening of the 30th back home to Sydney.

There’s some other very exciting news about my New York visit – but I can’t let the cat out of the bag about that yet

Originally published at Mistress Servalan on tour. You can comment here or there.

I just started writing this post about shorter sessions because I’ve been talking quite a lot about my extended and multi-day sessions but not mentioning all the shorter sessions I do as well. Then somehow when discussing how two hour bookings are taking over from one as most popular length in my diary I got distracted writing about crossdressing and I realised that I really just want to talk about playing dress ups

This week I’ve been having a lot of fun playing with my “special girls” – the careful application of beautiful makeup, lingerie and outfit changes, shoe choice and a perfect shining hairpiece… then we often descend from the decadent surrounds of the North Floor to the schoolroom for deportment lessons or to dungeon or sling room for some other sorts of explorations.

I would say that a majority of my crossdressing sessions are full transformation – last week one “special girl” who’s been seeing me for quite some time found out just how different it feels to see yourself with carefully applied makeup… s/he was actually doing an extended session instead of the usual shorter playtime, and instead of dressing herself quickly before we focus on our SM play. This time sitting upstairs in my makeup chair the transformation was more of a focus – s/he was astonished at how glamorous the right makeup and some pretty false eyelashes were!

I think that is one of the main reasons that I enjoy these sorts of sessions so much. I’ve been thinking about it recently – why exactly do I love playing dress ups? In some ways it’s not necessarily what you would expect from me – I’m well known for enjoying “heavy” activities like singletails, caning and piercing. Severe leather or rope bondage – that sort of thing…

But I think it’s the intensity of the experience that captures my attention. In a similar way to why I love playing with novices and introducing them to BDSM and Female Domination.

With full transformation the look in someone’s eyes when they see themselves in the mirror for the first time is amazing. The girl who was there all along hidden somewhere in their everyday masculine life. It makes me feel special to be able to see her too and bring her out of hiding to play. And there’s such a variety of “girls” also – from cheeky girls in a school uniform, sissies in pretty pink dresses, sexy french maids, rubber dolls, tramps in leather miniskirts, ladies in pretty dresses – though there’s no reason to restrict exploration to one sort of look or personality – changing your mind is supposed to be a ladies’ prerogative!

That said I’m feeling very frustrated with my cross-dressing area up on the North Floor. It seems to have got out of control – maybe because I keep buying new things! But there are just so many different looks that I want to be able to select – and of course a range of sizes that need to be covered. The clothes rack is so full I can barely see what’s there and the corset drawer is overflowing as are the boxes of lingerie and stockings. Plans afoot for renovations which are very exciting – though these things always seem to take a lot longer than expected…

In fact there are some very exciting changes planned for Carisbrook when I get back from my US travels at the end of May!

Originally published at Mistress Servalan on tour. You can comment here or there.

I just booked my tickets to go back to visit the US in mid-May. I leave Sydney on the 17th of May and am back home again on the 1st of June!

First stop is LA where I was invited to be a Special Guest of Honour at DomCon… I had such a great time last year at DomCon attending classes, amazing play parties and events, shopping for toys and outfits and of course seeing all my fabulous Domme friends from around the world.

This year should be just as fun – I haven’t been to the states in 12 months and am really looking forward to catching up with everyone at DomCon and of course more learning, shopping and networking

Following the DomCon festivities I’m heading across to New York to visit my best friend Mistress Wynter. I haven’t been east for a couple of years and already a number of my favourite American submissives are lining up to play – Ms Wynter and I have done so many incredible double sessions over the years we’ve been friends… I’m so excited to be playing with her again – it’s been too long!

I was thinking about Mistress Wynter just the other day during a cbt session. I was using sounds – and she is the undisputed Queen of Sounding! I absolutely love the look on her face when she’s penetrating someone’s penis with that shiny metal rod – such a blend of concentration and bliss   It was sharing a cbt slave with her quite a few years ago now that made me order an autoclave the minute I got back to Sydney so I could keep up the delicious practice myself…

Here is something she recently wrote on a BDSM message board recently when someone asked if sounds are painful,

“Sometimes there is a slight pinch, especially if you are new to the activity. Alert the Mistress if the pinch is more than a millisecond so she can decide how to proceed. Otherwise, no, there shouldn’t be pain and if there is, the activity should stop. With this activity more than any others you must stay in communication with the top as she has absolutely no idea if you are having difficulty.

My subs have explained the sensation as the feeling of continuous almost-orgasm. Sounds all right to me. “  Mistress Wynter NYC

Originally published at Mistress Servalan on tour. You can comment here or there.

I just spent four days in one of my intense super-extended sessions – so if anyone was wondering “where’s Mistress and why isn’t she answering the phone” that would be why!

As usual this sort of experience really pushes boundaries in a lot of different ways – of bondage endurance, pain tolerance, forced or denied orgasms (thank you Venus 2000), and especially the basic D/s (Dominant/submissive) connection. Being completely under my control for days is very intense for someone who is used to being very much in control in his everyday life! It’s intense for me too – and I enjoy the challenge of keeping the experience fresh and exciting considering that I’ve been playing with this particular slave for around 10 years and we’ve been doing extended sessions for much of that time…

I think that’s one of the most enjoyable things about being a ProDomme for me – the creativity involved and how there is always something new to do… I think the day I stop getting excited about a new bondage position I just thought of, or evil way to torment someone is the day to hang up my boots. Luckily that seems a long way off!

This session I enjoyed introducing my slave to some new pieces that had arrived since his last session – particularly the cock-trampling table… I’m going to put some photos of it in action up on my Fetlife profile https://fetlife.com/users/78037 as I think they’re a bit racy for here I’ll have to take some R instead of X rated ones using a silicone cock instead of a human one!

Anyway – I’ve had the trampling table for a while but hadn’t really used it but it was great! I combined the restrictiveness of the table itself with my leather leg and arm binders for an intense experience of restriction and vulnerability at the same time… it’s also an amazing pedestal for fetish appreciation for me – I like the height and feeling of power gazing down at the slave trapped underneath my glamorous heels with his genitals trapped and laid out for me to torment! I know my slave particularly enjoyed watching me in fabulous girdle, fully fashioned stockings, Louboutins and corset arrayed so literally above him while he was trapped by the cock!

Other new additions to the Carisbrook collection include inflatable rubber bondage mitts, a unique leather “muff” restraint and a very severe bondage gag system that has a couple of interchangeable gags including an inflatable one with breathing tube. This is fantastic because as it’s pumped up it totally fills the mouth yet doesn’t restrict breathing for people who have trouble with breathing through their nose alone…

I really need to take some more photos so people get a better idea of all the new toy goodness.

Of course I use all my old favourite toys and bondage furniture – some things I just can’t go a week without using… but one piece of bondage furniture I rediscovered was my long horse- I’ve had this since I first left Salon Kittys all those years ago but in recent years it’s sat in the corner and not been used very often. Which is a shame that will soon be remedied – it’s very versatile with lots of amazing attachment points and can be combined with the overhead suspension for even more options.

You can’t really see from this photo but there is a strategic hole in the middle that is perfect for added genital bondage. I had my slave in a couple of different bondage positions on this horse – the seated one here and also lying along it in the position traditionally known as “kissing the gunner’s daughter”. I rediscovered this a couple of weeks ago with a discipline sub who wanted to experience the Venus 2000 at the same time as a caning! It took quite a bit of fiddling with rope under the horse but I managed to get everything hooked up… I need to investigate some less fiddly options for that as I think the combination of pleasure and pain is fascinating.

Originally published at Mistress Servalan on tour. You can comment here or there.

As everyone who’s visited Carisbrook or read much of my blog I’m a big gear head and love collecting different pieces of equipment. Including all sorts of different discipline implements from all around the world – perhaps the most special simply because of how hard they are to acquire now are my selection of authentic vintage Scottish school tawses.

I made a range of educational videos last year with the wonderful people at Kink Academy and two of them specifically feature the Lochgelly – “The Leather Strap and Lochgelly Tawse” and “Discipline to the Hands”. I’ve received some nice feedback from people who’ve watched these videos as it seems as if this style of very traditional discipline is becoming something of a lost art!

Severe tawses are certainly on the endangered list – there really is no comparison between a modern reproduction and an authentic vintage Lochgelly… mostly this is because of modern farming practices strange though that may seem – different breeds of cattle combined with a much shorter lifespan means that it’s almost impossible to get the same grade of heavy dense leather that made up the very best (from the disciplinarian’s side at least) tawses. I was recently give a very good reproduction to join my collection – it has three tails and is surprisingly dense and heavy compared to most modern tawses – I believe the maker was very lucky in finding a particularly dense hide. I haven’t had a chance to test it out yet – perhaps there’s a naughty lad willing to step forward

Someone asked me for a picture of me holding one – so here it is – taken a few minutes ago in my schoolroom at Carisbrook. That tawse is my first one – it’s stamped as a M (for medium) but is actually more severe than the H I have even though it’s not quite as heavy. This tawse has an interesting story – it was given to me by a sub who found it curled up in a drawer of an old house he bought on Sydney’s North Shore – I wonder how many naughty palms it was laid across in the days before it found it’s way to me!

Some of my other tawses are a Lochgelly Heavy and another Lochgelly Medium. The Lochgelly’s are stamped “John J Dick – maker – Lochgelly” I have an unstamped three tail tawse as well as a two tailer that’s marked “T. Wilson – maker – Falkirk” which is interesting because while quite a large number of saddlers made tawses for sale to teachers not many achieved the same level of notoriety… Missing from my Lochgelly collection is an XH grade and a three tail tawse – but they’re extremely hard to track down these days and are prohibitively expensive.

I recently read a book leant to me by a naughty (adult) boy – The Rule of the Strap – Memories of a Scottish Girls’ Reform School by Mary McKenzie. A very interesting account of the sort of discipline that was meted out in the days when every Scottish teacher kept a “belt” or two curled in their desk drawer to be brought out at need.

Traditionally and as documented extensively in this book school children most often received punishment across the palms instead of on the bare bottom – I was interested to find when I made the Kink Academy video that this style of play is very rare in the US… I love disciplining the palms – the eye contact is always very intense and it’s so very intimidating to watch the tawse raised over my shoulder to come smacking down on the palm!

Of course I also will use them across bare bottoms on occasion – and many subs have said that the tawse can be as painful as the cane – but marks far less time as it doesn’t leave the same distinct track marks as the cane…

Originally published at Mistress Servalan on tour. You can comment here or there.

I’ve just taken up my laptop to write a little note while my newest sub is tightly confined in the heavy Mr S leather bodybag during a whole night of bondage and other play. He’s laced into a leather hood as well so completely encased and restricted – yumm… I think I’ll go suspend him in the bag so he can experience the sensation of dangling helplessly and feeling even more at my mercy! Oooh – I just ran my hands across the tight leather and I can still feel the warmth across his shoulders from the lovely flogging I gave him earlier. Well – lovely for me as I really enjoy the flow and connection of building the intensity from lighter to heavier floggers and watching the skin react under the leather tails…

It’s quite unusual for a first session to be an overnight experience – mostly people like to get to know me a little with shorter one or two hour sessions first. That said – there is certainly something to be said for the intensity of total immersion into my world. The key to making it a success for me is making sure that the prospective slave has enough compatible interests that are suited to extended play. In this case an existing love of restrictive bondage piqued my interest and made me decide that we could have our first meeting be a very intense one.

I think the reason I do such a lot of extended, overnight and multi-day sessions is because my dungeon Carisbrook is so well set up for this sort of play – I have quite a number of distinct play areas so it’s not like being stuck in one room for 12 or so hours… Plus I have such a large variety of bondage equipment that it’s easy to make sure there’s a variety of different experiences across the time. Though I guess the *real* reason is that I really like them and have had a lot of experience in the ten or so years I’ve been doing overnight sessions.

Anyway – I’d best go torment this slave some more… I’ve already had him bound in rope and confined in the standing cage wearing the fabulous new asylum half-mask that just arrived from MrS (gee I love those guys – so much amazing stuff), flogged, clamped and teased – hmmm sounds like time for some more teasing and some cbt!

My twitter will probably have a few updates here and there during the night www.twitter.com/msservalan

Originally published at Mistress Servalan on tour. You can comment here or there.

I had a relaxing day today - sleeping in in my super comfy bed. Coffees and pottering around - a very late lunch.

I had been planning to go to the beach, but the sky was threatening and the radar showed a thunderstorm rolling in. It ended up being a storm-fail, clouds, one clap of thunder and a few fat rain drops.

A change of mind and I was in the water about six thirty. It wasn't a perfect sunny beach day but somehow that made the experience even better. The beautiful light on the rocks and the freshness of the water - delicious.

Right now I'm sitting at my friend's big kitchen table, eating the peas I just shelled and drinking a glass of delicious wine. Ooh - here is the risotto - happiness.

I didn't do any of the "shoulds" today - my new leather bondage gear remains un-photographed for example. But it has been a very good day :)

Posted via LiveJournal.app.

Since the Venus 2000 (aka the Milking Machine) joined Carisbrook it’s been getting quite a bit of use by both Mistress Jadis and myself! Like a lot of different things it can be nice or nasty – though to be honest with this particular toy we have to stretch our imaginations to make it nasty – a bit like the Hitachi Magic Wand really (and oooh – aren’t they a mindblowing combination!)

This evening I introduced it to a regular fisting sub of mine who’s always on the lookout for new experiences that fall into his range of preferred activities… I decided that the Venus would be a perfect adjunct to this sort of play as according to another sub of mine it feels like “oral simulation if a machine was doing it” – hehee with the plus side that “Slave Venus” never gets bored, cranky, or lockjaw!

So anyway – while I was cleaning up all the debris of a very good time I decided to take a few happy snaps with the venus and one of the other toys I’d been using so people could get a better idea of what exactly is involved. (Please excuse late night scruffy happy snap)

So as you can see – the bits go into the receiver which is connected to the mysterious black box then extreme suction occurs! I always like turning the speed up very fast then just in time switching to frustratingly slow

I’ll have to ask Mistress Jadis to reveal some of her favourite experiences… mine have been so many! From “forced orgasms” in a BDSM context to providing a sissy slut with a cock-sucking benchmark

There are a few interesting experiences recounted over on the Australian FemDomme board I moderate at Irene Boss’s excellent message board The Scene – I shall have to chase up a few other people to discuss their experiences as it’s always interesting to get new perspectives (though new ideas can be dangerous in the wrong minds – hahahahaaa)

http://domboss.com/messageboard/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=99769#Post99769

http://domboss.com/messageboard/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=104435#Post104435

One more silly picture cause I really do like to laugh at Slave Venus’s antics

Originally published at Mistress Servalan on tour. You can comment here or there.

As I mentioned in my last update – I have a very interesting new piece of dungeon equipment – the DogBox! Yesterday I finally got around to taking some photos of it – so gathered up one of my personal slaves and a friend to capture a few images to give an idea of what it’s like.

Here I am with the slave as pup chained in the kennel… Also new is the amazing dog hood that arrived this week. Yay for toy shopping!

A better view of the fabulous dog hood – along with the padded mitts I bought at Leatherman in New York a couple of years ago…

So for anyone into human dog training the addition of a large kennel is obviously a Very Good thing, it’s also nice and a little humiliating for regular slaves who need to be chained and left there – who knows what might be put in that stainless steel dog dish *smirk*

However that’s not the only options of the DogBox – I really wanted it to be a versatile piece. It has special sliding panels that turn it from the comfy kennel into a set of stocks!

I don’t have a shot of the other option for the stocks – but I can easily secure the slave’s head into the back so he’s facing into darkness, leaving his nether regions vulnerable and exposed! Hehehee – I did this recently in session and apparently it can be a bit of a surprise when the anal electrode is inserted when least expected

Or for a different option for bondage and sensory deprivation the solid end piece can be slid in and the slave locked away in the dark – this can be quite comfortable, even cozy if I put a nice soft blanket in…

But by adding panels and an extra internal lid I really reduce wriggle room and make it very restrictive indeed! I’ve found a couple of slaves – even those into heavy restrictive bondage have found this particular experience a lot more intense than they were expecting.

So much fun!

Originally published at Mistress Servalan on tour. You can comment here or there.

Happy Year of the Dragon everyone! I hope this year is filled with prosperity and happiness… I can’t believe how fast the holiday season got away from me… it seems like just the other day I was running around like a crazy person getting ready for the fabulous annual Carisbrook Christmas Party and here it is almost Australia Day!

Carisbrook has been very busy over the last few weeks with both Mistress Jadis and I enjoying time with many of our favourite slaves and play partners… I suspect that the pre-xmas rush was a bit of self-care for people who needed to take out an hour or two to focus on themselves (or even better Me!) in the middle of all the holiday craziness.

I’m sure that the huge stress relief of play made for less stress! I know that I always enjoy walking around after an amazing session with that secret little smile on my face making everyone wonder why I look so happy

I also had a chance to get out of Sydney for a week – venturing up the coast as far as Byron and also spending some time at one of the beautiful beaches near Kempsey. It was just so relaxing to get to swim in the warm ocean and laze around eating delicious food…

That said I’m always happy to be back in the dungeon again – I miss all my lovely toys, outfits and shoes when I’m away! Though that is a big benefit of going on a driving holiday – I could pack as outrageously as I wanted – because a lady never knows when she’ll require fully fashioned nylons and Louboutins even on a beach holiday!

Recent sessions have been fabulous including a four day session – this particular slave has commented that he’s always surprised by all my ideas… you’d think after all the extended sessions we’ve done over many years of play I’d have run out of new things to try. But as with all of us I hope my play style changes and grows – I get “crazes” on certain pieces of equipment or types of play and then forget about them for a while to explore something different.

Speaking of equipment Carisbrook has had a couple of recent additions including the DogBox which can be a comfy kennel for human pups, a humiliating set of stocks or the ultimate in isolation… Guess I better take some photos so you can see what I mean!

Originally published at Mistress Servalan on tour. You can comment here or there.

I’ve been exploring different sorts of sessions recently…which is always interesting and rather exciting

I’m very lucky in that most of my play (probably 4 out of 5 sessions) is with people I’ve seen before… If I take a look at my diary the last month or two I see people I’ve been seeing for over ten years – even from my early apprentice days at Salon Kittys! Mixed with people I’ve seen a few times here and there over a few years and some who’ve seen me once or twice and are really excited to explore a little further…  Knowing people well and feeling comfortable with each other can also lead us to be able to explore different sorts of session structures.

Of course for most people who come to see me a 1/2/3 hour session is probably the best option. We have limited time to play – but the focus and intensity is even greater as a result… I recently wrote on a BDSM message board I moderate about how a contained session like this is a sort of perfect BDSM haiku – the rest of the everyday world is oblated while we connect in a very personal and specific way… the romantic ideal of going our separate ways afterwards with barely a nod then meeting up again a month later for the perfect oblivion of that couple of hours…

I think a lot of people who read this diary/blog know that I’m an expert in overnight and multi-day sessions. I am one of a handful of Mistresses worldwide who specialise in this sort of intense and extended session… Part of it is being an Independent Domme with her own extensive play-space (which means I’m not paying an hourly rate for dungeon hire, and that I have many different areas in which to play) – but a large amount of the reason I do so many extended sessions is that I like them! (and I price them fairly – it’s certainly not the same rate as 10 or 12 one hour sessions!)

But there are lots of options for different sorts of sessions – this week I’ve had a domestic slave come in for a whole day in Carisbrook – a large percentage of his day was spent on his knees cleaning every corner of my dungeon in preparation for Ms Minax’s visit, but he was also tormented throughout the day with chastity devices, nipple play, discipline, electro and a variety of other torments… I spent time answering emails or phonecalls, reading my book, amusing myself at his expense, indulging his personal fetishes when it appealed to me and making sure all his tasks were accomplished to my high standards!

It’s certainly not the sort of session that is suited to a one or two hour session – or to be honest would be “fair” as my focus isn’t totally on the slave for the whole time – but that’s the whole point for someone who is called to serve!

Another delicious and unusual extended session this week was with my Sissy Baby who came in for several hours with Aunty Servalan… again it’s not a simple hourly rate – sissy baby may be left dressed in a frilly outfit to play with her teddy while I send emails or answer the phone – later a friend of mine  dropped by to casually have a giggle seeing what my sissy has been up to…

The experience of being Sissy Baby is well suited to a session that is longer in time – being helpless and in bondage is an exciting part of the experience… As I know this particular sissy very well – I’m happy to keep “her” for a longer time and work her submission into my personal schedule so we can have a good mix of play, submission and even (play) abandonment…

Another sort of play option often comes up with someone who’s in town for a few days for work… they are often busy during the day (and some evenings) but can “sneak off” here and there to play and feel that while they are in my city – they are my slave! This can involve being collared with a discreet but unremovable chain collar the whole time – to being locked in a chastity device

I adore fine dining so having a collared and chastised slave take me for a delicious dinner takes the sensual experience to the next level for both of us!

Originally published at Mistress Servalan on tour. You can comment here or there.

My good friend Mistress Eve Minax is visiting Australia for a vacation at the end of this month and has made two days available out of her schedule to come play with me in Carisbrook…

She’s a very experienced Domme and BDSM Educator currently based in San Francisco. She has a passion for intense physiological play, transformation, medical of all sorts (she has a fantastic Dr Eve medical play DVD) and according to her latest email to me “deep and twisted perversions” – ooohhhh   Plus of course all the “regular” fun things like bondage, discipline, spanking, humiliation, cbt and electro…

She’ll be available for session on Wednesday 30th November and Thursday the 1st December so I’d advise making a booking as soon as possible as her time is likely to fill up very quickly If you’re interested in seeing her – or even better both of us for a devious Double Domme session email me ms.servalan@gmail.com or her minax@mistressminax.com

Originally published at Mistress Servalan on tour. You can comment here or there.

A few weeks ago a very exciting item arrived in Carisbrook! A world famous Venus 2000 – this device is considered the ultimate in male sensual toys and has proved very entertaining to add into my sessions… especially when the sub is blindfolded and has no idea what’s going to happen!

Now I have a few standard sized receivers – but obviously a custom sized receiver is going to be a better option if you go to the manufacturers website http://www.sybian.com/venusindex.html you can order one exactly your size and bring it along with you to try out the experience!

If you’re curious about what the experience is like there are a heap of rave reviews out there – I found this one both informative and hilarious http://www.sextoytalk.com/reviews/sex-toy-review.asp?sku=46

Originally published at Mistress Servalan on tour. You can comment here or there.

So obviously I’ve been home from my travels for aaages – but have neglected to put pixels to screen as it were

Hong Kong was good fun – I managed not to shop too silly and really enjoyed some sightseeing as well. I especially enjoyed visiting the seated Buddha statue on Lantau Island and the fabulous cablecar trip across to see it.

I’ve been having a lot of fantastic adventures at home in Carisbrook since I got back – including another awesome multi-day session that ran across 4 days and three nights. I really enjoy over-night and multi-day sessions as they really give me a chance to explore different aspects of D/s (Dominance and submission) in a variety of settings from a decadent dinner to a supervised excursion – plus of course almost unlimited playtime in the dungeon!

A few sessions with people new to BDSM which has got me thinking a lot about how a sub-curious new person can find a balance between fantasy/expectations/reality and being the kind of sub who makes me smile when I see his number… more on that later as I’m heading off to MaXXX Black shortly.

I know it’s a terrible trite thing to say but the whole time flies feeling is quite intense at the moment! It’s almost my birthday again – 6th of October for anyone who’s curious… though I’m standing my the old adage “A Lady never reveals her age.” Because once I passed my shoe size European 38 I decided that was a nice place to hang out

Here are some photos from the Sydney Leather Pride party Inquisition which was quite a few weeks ago now (see what I mean about time flying)  Photos are all by Kellie LaFranchi . First is just showing off my outfit including my beloved over the knee Christian Louboutin boots – then there are some that were taken during a performance installation I was in with a variety of glamorous women including my friend shown here – Burlesque Diva, Lillian Starr.  I have an awesome photo with Mistress Serena too but I’ll just have to double check if she wants it here or if that just leads to too many sad emails asking her to come back to professional practice! (Believe me there’s no way that lady is ever hanging up her boots in her personal life!!!)

Originally published at Mistress Servalan on tour. You can comment here or there.

Poor Carisbrook is going to be very lonely for the last week of August as both Mistress Jadis and myself are going to be away!

Usually we do a much better job of planning our travels to make sure there’s always someone to mind the fort – but this time her London visit is clashing with my Hong Kong jaunt. She’s away until the 25th of September…

I on the other hand am away for just under a week – leaving on Saturday 27th August and back in Sydney again on the 2nd of September. It’s a holiday rather than a work trip this time – though you never know what might happen I’m really looking forward to it! It’s my first trip to Hong Kong and I may have plans for a tiny little bit of shopping and plenty of delicious noms too… I’ve been checking out a few online and have seen some fantastic looking vegetarian restaurants. Oooh – and a fish pedicure! I’m so looking forward to that!

Nice thing is that there’s very little time difference so I shouldn’t have any jet lag at all – plus it’s not a very long flight… well not compared to the US or the UK!

Originally published at Mistress Servalan on tour. You can comment here or there.